Archive for the ‘Humility’ Category

Humility & Humble Correction

Wednesday, September 15th, 2010

The Gospel Coalition council members James MacDonald and C.J. Mahaney address the multifaceted expressions of humility and how to humbly engage in the necessary practice of Christian correction. The latest video in TGC’s roundtable series.

Be Humbled by Sin, Not Discouraged

Wednesday, August 6th, 2008

For this month’s Puritan Reading Challenge, we’re reading William Bridge’s A Lifting up for the Downcast. In his chapter called, “A Lifting Up in the Case of Great Sin” he argues that a godly, gracious man should be humbled for his sin, but never should he be discouraged.

Now one might ask, “What is the difference between these two; being humbled and being discouraged?” Well Bridge gives a very insightful answer,

“When a man is humbled, truly humbled, the object of his grief or sorrow or trouble is sin itself, as a dishonour done unto God. The object of discouragement is a man’s own condition . . . . To clear this by Scripture: you know Cain was discouraged, but Cain was not humbled. How may that appear? Cain was troubled about his condition. Ah, says he, my punishment is greater than I can bear. On the other side, the poor prodigal was humbled, but not discouraged. How may that appear? His trouble was about his sin, and not about his condition: “I will return unto my Father (says he), and I will say until him, I have sinned against heaven and before thee, and I am no more worthy to be called thy son; make me as one of thy hired servants.”

In truth, the prodigal did consider his condition as he sat there hungry, in the muddy wallow, watching the pigs eat. But Bridge’s point still stands since it was the shame of squandering his inheritance and dishonouring his father’s name that weighed most heavily on him as he headed back home.

So this is what we can pull away: When believers fall into great sin, we can respond in two ways: humility or discouragement. If we focus on ourselves and on the trouble that sin has brought upon us, then we will only be discouraged and weakened in faith. But if we keep our eyes on our Father – who is holy – we will be humbled by our sinfulness which gives rise to an even greater dependence on him, hence a stronger faith.

Knowing how we should respond to our sin (humility, not discouragement) and being able to discern the difference is a great help in our sanctification.

Humble Yourself Before a Child

Sunday, June 10th, 2007

To apply his sermon on humility towards each other, Barton reminded us that humility is not developed in us passively but rather when we go out and practice it through service in the name of Christ. This advice comes straight from the mouth of our Lord.

And he sat down and called the twelve. And he said to them, “If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all.” And he took a child and put him in the midst of them, and taking him in his arms, he said to them, “Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me, and whoever receives me, receives not me but him who sent me.” (Mark 9:35-37)

It is striking that Jesus’ first suggestion for developing humility was to serve a child! Why did he use a child to illustrate his point? What is it about serving children that tends towards cultivating humility? Perhaps it is because children, of all people, are the least capable of paying you back or returning the service. They don’t understand the sacrifices you make for them, and more likely than not they will take you for granted. But for these very reasons serving children tends to magnify your motives – whether your service is directed towards the praise of man or the praise of God. (see also Luke 14:12-14) So consider the humbling, yet character-forming, experience of children’s ministry. Consider serving the children of Dunbar this summer at our Sonforce Kids camp.

How the Perseverance of the Saints Humbles the Proud

Friday, June 8th, 2007

[Part 5 of 5]
The Perseverance of the Saints defined: “They, whom God has accepted in His Beloved, effectually called, and sanctified by His Spirit, can neither totally nor finally fall away from the state of grace, but shall certainly persevere therein to the end, and be eternally saved.” (Westminster Confession, XVII.1)

Implications for Humility:
- Be humbled by persevering grace: The amazing grace we experienced the hour we first believed will be continually poured out into our lives, that God may complete the good work he began in us (Phil 1:6). As a believer, your perseverance to the end does not rely on a right use of free will to remain faithful and obedient but solely on persevering grace.
- Be humbled by the possibility of false faith: By the temptations of Satan and the world and because of indwelling sin, the elect, due to neglect of the means of perseverance, may for a time fall into grievous sin, but by the grace of God, they will not persist. However, if you continue in sin with a hardened heart, then you evidence a false faith – meaning you were never born of God (1 Jn 3:6, Heb 3:12-13). If you find yourself in such a humbled state, do not delay to repent and believe on Jesus for salvation.
- Be humbled by the righteousness of Christ: The sanctified righteousness of a believer is a necessity for heaven, but it is not the basis upon which we enter. Our entrance into heaven and our eternal approval before God is based solely on the righteousness of Christ, which we received by faith. After a lifetime of Christian obedience we come before the King with meager righteousness, humbling saying, “We are unworthy servants; we have only done what was our duty.” (Luke 17:10).

How Irresistible Grace Humbles the Proud

Wednesday, June 6th, 2007

[Part 4 of 5]
Irresistible Grace defined: “All those whom God hath predestinated unto life, and those only, He is pleased, in His appointed time, effectually to call, by His Word and Spirit, out of that state of sin and death, in which they are by nature, to grace and salvation by Jesus Christ; enlightening their minds spiritually and savingly to understand the things of God; taking away their heart of stone, and giving unto them an heart of flesh; renewing their wills, and by His almighty power determining them to that which is good; and effectually drawing them to Jesus Christ; yet so as they come most freely, being made willing by His grace.” (Westminster Confession, X.1)

Implications for Humility:
- Be humbled by your stony heart: Apart from God’s grace, our hearts are hardened like stone containing no love for God nor any desire to do his will. In our calloused condition, we are unable to draw near to Jesus, but more so we are unwilling.
- Be humbled by God’s effectual call: When God calls his sheep (his elect) to himself, he calls them by name, and they follow for they know his voice (John 10:3-4). God’s saving call to a lost sinner is effectual and always accomplishes its purpose – even in the proudest of hearts.
- Be humbled by sovereign grace: A sinner will only come to Jesus if God’s sovereign grace overcome his resistance and makes him willing. God does so without overpowering the sinner and forcing him to come against his will, kicking and screaming. Rather, God opens blind eyes and awakens darkened hearts by shining the irresistibly beautiful light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ (2 Cor 4:6). Everyone who is enabled to come to Jesus comes freely and joyfully!

How Limited Atonement Humbles the Proud

Tuesday, June 5th, 2007

[Part 3 of 5]
Limited Atonement
defined: The doctrine is intended to answer two questions, 1) For whom did Christ die for? and 2) What did Christ actually achieve on the cross for those whom he died? Answer: Christ died to effectively secure the redemption of his elect only, which was accomplished on the cross by achieving an actual removal of sin, guilt, curse, and wrath and by securing everything necessary for the salvation of his elect – including their faith. The emphasis of limited atonement is not to limit the infinite value of Christ’s death (thinking that it could only save a limited number of individuals) but to emphasize the atonement’s particular and intended effect upon the elect – those who will certainly be saved. Therefore, some consider the label, Particular Redemption, a more fitting description.

Implications for Humility:
- Be humbled by an effective redemption: When Christ died on the cross, he actually accomplished something. Those who argue for a universal atonement claim that Jesus’ death on the cross only made our redemption a potentiality – it made us savable – contingent upon our right use of free will in trusting Christ, thereby making a potential salvation a reality. But particular redemption teaches that – if you are a Christian – your sins really were paid for on the cross and your guilt really was removed, as well as the curse of the law and the wrath of God. It humbles a believer to know that you did not complete your redemption by the right use of free will but rather your redemption was effective and completed over 2000 years ago on the cross of Christ.
- Be humbled by blood-bought faith: But don’t you need to have faith in order to receive the benefits of Christ’s death? Yes – but remember that “you did not make the cross effective in your life by faith. The cross became effective in your life by purchasing your faith.” (Piper, For Whom Did Jesus Taste Death?) Even your faith, which unites you to Christ’s work, was blood-bought, so again there is no room for boasting – save for the power of Jesus’ blood.
- Be humbled by covenant love: There is a deep, unfathomable covenant love that Christ has for his Bride, the church (Eph 5:25-27). Christ’s love for his Bride is unique compared to his love for those who refuse to believe and go to hell. If you are a member of his Bride, does it not humble you to know that Jesus had you and your salvation in view as he hung on the cross? There is a greatness about this covenant love that you will never know or experience if you believe that those in hell were loved and died-for in the same way as you.

How Unconditional Election Humbles the Proud

Thursday, May 31st, 2007

[Part 2 of 5]
Unconditional Election
defined: “Those of mankind that are predestinated unto life, God, before the foundation of the world was laid, according to His eternal and immutable purpose, and the secret counsel and good pleasure of His will, hath chosen, in Christ, unto everlasting glory, out of His mere free grace and love, without any foresight of faith or good works, or perseverance in either of them, or any other thing in the creature, as conditions, or causes moving Him thereunto: and all to the praise of His glorious grace.” (Westminster Confession, III.5)

Implications for Humility:
- Be humbled by free grace (again): Just as total depravity reminds us that nothing in our nature merits favor with God, unconditional election humbly reminds us that there are no conditions to meet to gain his favor. We have no basis – in nature or deed – for boasting in our salvation.
- Be humbled by God’s eternal purposes: God does not elect a man on the basis of foreseeing the man’s future free decision to choose him. The future free decision is only possible because of election. God’s election of individuals to salvation stems from “His eternal and immutable purpose”. So glory not in your faith but rather in the depths of the riches and wisdom and knowledge of God! (Rom 11:33).
- Be humbled by electing love: There is nothing God’s elect has done or can do to deserve his electing love. Do not be proud that God loves you, but rejoice and rest in a love offered without conditions.

How Total Depravity Humbles the Proud

Tuesday, May 29th, 2007

[Part 1 of 5]
(In last Sunday’s sermon, one of the applications for how to “weaken pride and cultivate humility” was to study the doctrines of grace, or what is commonly known as the Five Points of Calvinism.)

Total Depravity defined: “Man, by his fall into a state of sin, hath wholly lost all ability of will to any spiritual good accompanying salvation: so as, a natural man, being altogether averse from that good, and dead in sin, is not able, by his own strength, to convert himself, or to prepare himself thereunto” (Westminster Confession, IX.3)

Implications for Humility:
- Be humbled by your helpless state: Apart from God’s saving grace, we are in such a helpless state that we do not even have the will to choose God, much less the desire to want to. We are absolutely helpless without Him – no matter how successful, smart, popular, athletic, attractive or religious we are.
- Be humbled by your vain righteousness: All boasting in our righteousness is empty and in vain because even the most virtuous of good works accomplished by a fallen heart still falls short of the glory of God – because the heart does not have the glory of God in its sights but simply the glory of man.
- Be humbled by your desperate need: Fallen man is in desperate need of God to savingly act to regenerate his heart. We need more from God than just a pick-me-up, or a boost, or some inspiration – we need Him to give us a completely new heart that has new desires, new loves, and a new will to trust Him.
- Be humbled by free grace: By God’s free grace, He chose to love his sheep though they were enemies who deserved nothing but punishment. If you trust Christ, be humbled by the fact that your faith is a free gift that you did not deserve and can never earn.

Humility is not a preference or an opinion, but a virtue (and pride is a vice)

Monday, May 28th, 2007

The term “virtue” for humility in the title was purposefully chosen and is loaded with meaning. By stating that humility is a virtue rather than a preference or opinion is to say that the moral quality of “humility” is an objective and universal good, independent of culture (time and place). In other words, to state that the moral quality of humility is “good” and “right” is as much a fact (a truth) as to state, say, that the earth is round. This is in contrast to how we commonly think of morality in our day, which often understands moral precepts as being a matter of personal preference. To give an example: take the statement, “Drunkenness, which is a state of intoxication, is wrong.” That drunkenness is a state of intoxication is an undisputed fact. That drunkenness is wrong, however, which invokes a moral judgment on drunkenness, would be considered by many an opinion or a preference. To you it may be wrong with your cultural norms and standards, but to someone else it may be right. However, by saying that a quality like humility or sobriety is a “virtue”, one is saying that there are moral precepts like “humility” that exist as objectively good and right apart from the subjective, personal preference. One cannot, then, dismiss the notion that humility is “right” by claiming that it is only right for those whose context allows for it to be right. It is instead “right” for all people of all times, and therefore if one exercises the moral quality of humility, it can be truly said that he/she does what is right. There is no coincidence that both the religious and non-religious, the Christian and non-Christian, have all at one time recognized the virtuous quality of “humility.”

The claim of objectivity in moral precepts, however, is one that the Christian (and the Jew and the Muslim) can justifiably make, since for the Christian there exists an objective moral law that transcends all time and place and that has been infused into the world from the beginning of its created existence. For the Christian there exists an eternal lawgiver, God, who has put in place the objective standard for morally right and wrong activity. All human talk of right and wrong derives first and foremost from God, who created humans with the capacity to perceive notions of right and wrong. And, as has been revealed by Scripture and also attested to by many philosophers in history, the moral quality of “humility” is a quality that is right; it is a true statement to say humility is good for all people of all time. Humility is truly a virtue, rather than a cultural or situational preference. And the converse is equally true: pride is truly wrong and is truly a vice independent of subjective personal opinion or preference.

The next step is to ask this question: to what ends (or goals) are we to understand these notions of virtue and vice? So the philosopher and the theologian both agree that “humility” is a virtue: are we both, then, saying the same thing? To answer this question we must ask: are we to understand these qualities in a static way, so that the goal is to merely obtain humility and remove pride, or are there ends toward which our obtaining of humility and rejection of pride moves us? And are these ends for which the philosopher and the theologian strive the same? I hope to address this in the next post.

How does an Infinitely Glorious God consider me better than Himself?

Sunday, May 27th, 2007

In Barton’s sermon on Humility, he mentioned a passage of scripture that has puzzled me. In Philippians 2:3 we are commanded to “do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves.” And then starting in v5-11 we are given the greatest example of this kind of humility through the incarnation, death, and resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ. But if vv5-11 are suppose to be illustrative of the commands in vv1-4, then does that not strike you odd that, in humility, Jesus considered us better than himself? I can picture him doing nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, and I can imagine him putting my interests over his own. But I have difficulty with Jesus, who is infinitely glorious (being in the very nature God), thinking I am better than he is. And looking to another translation does not help: NASB – “regard one another as more important than yourselves” or ESV – “count others more significant than yourselves“. So how it is possible that Jesus considers us better or more important or more significant than Himself?

This passage is theologically difficult to swallow if you have a high view of Jesus. If he is our God – our Creator, Redeemer, and Sovereign King – then our interpretation of Phil 2 cannot mean that, in humility, Jesus considers us to be of better worth or of greater value. That would be blasphemous. So what does “consider us better” mean?

First consider why he humbled himself. Remember that the illustration in vv5-11 ends with, “Therefore God exalted him to the highest place…“. That means Jesus humbled himself as a servant and died on a cross so that his glory would be exalted. In other words, Jesus’ humility ultimately serves his glory. Jesus did not humble himself because he saw our intrinsic worth or value as better than his. The truth is that he humbled himself in order to show how intrinsically worthy and valuable he is. So even before he stepped into our world, the Son had his future resurrected glory in view, and when he considered the existence of a Redeemed People – who would see and savor that glory for eternity – such was better than the pursuit of selfish ambition or self-preservation. He considered our eternal happiness in his glory as something better than the avoidance of harm or shame – so he gladly endured the cross, scorning its shame (Heb 12:2).

So a humility modeled after Christ is a humility that has the glory of Christ in view. And to “consider others better than yourself” means to consider your selfish ambition or self-preservation as nothing compared to helping others see and savor the glory of Christ. It means that you consider their eternal happiness in God as better than the avoidance of harm or shame. To have Christlike-humility means you are willing to lower yourself to the greatest of depths or to sacrifice the greatest of costs so that others would be able to attain the same sight of glory that you now enjoy. To simply consider others as better or wiser or stronger or prettier does not take a new heart – anybody can show that kind of humility. But only a regenerated heart can humble itself to such depths to bring other to such heights of glory.